Benchmarc

Hi All, Had my first online casino experience resulting in some disappoint surrounding wagering requirements. My fault for not reading the T&C's extensively. I made a bit of cash, wanted to withdraw at least my initial deposit but found out I was basically locked into the casino until I lose it (needed 50x initial deposit and roulette counted toward a minuscule %). I was using Casino Mate. Back down to $0 balance now. I would put more money in but I am afraid I will be forced into another bonus sum which will make it near impossible to win long enough to see the money again. If I deposit another sum I imagine the bonus will be automatically applied. Are you able to specifically decline the bonus? With no bonus I would think there won't be any restriction on withdrawing? Any other online casinos anyone can suggest that don't offer bonuses and are more flexible with withdrawing? Thanks guys, any help would be greatly appreciated.